1) Your right index finger is probably the most important digit on your body when you are right handed – so slamming it in the car door is a really bad idea. Unfortunately I learned this lesson the hard (and painful) way when I did, syringe indeed, sildenafil close the door on that finger last Friday. There was a lot of blood and I have a swollen purple finger. There is a good chance the nail is going to fall off. However, contagion this brings me to the next lesson…
2) There are still a lot of good people in the world. As I stood beside the car, swearing and crying and watching the blood spill onto the ground (and mostly worrying about whether it was broken and what on earth I was going to do about the girls) two guys came and helped me. One had training in First Aid. They sat me down (I admit, I was getting woozy and was shaking really badly), patched me up and then drove the girls and I home (one drove while one followed behind in the truck they were driving.) The guys were on their lunch break and used it to help a complete stranger.
3) Children are always watching and listening. I don’t know how much Moira understood about my finger accident on Friday but just when I thought nothing could shut that child up – something did. Thankfully I had both girls in their car seats when I slammed the door on my finger (I was shutting Moira’s door) and so they were safe and out of the way. Unless spoken to, Moira was silent the whole time. I imagine seeing her Mum like that was a scary situation and she somehow knew enough to not say a word while I sat in very back of the station wagon with a total stranger. She is still a little nervous to talk about it. Fionnuala, on the other hand, just sat in her car seat and smiled.
4) Procrastinating never works out well for me. I had really great plans to make Moira a Little Red Riding Hood costume for Halloween. I had the material ready, the pattern ready and was going to cut it out and sew it Friday afternoon. We had even been reading different versions of Little Red Riding Hood from the library. Obviously I can’t sew right now and so I had to scramble a little bit to find a costume but I have great friends and the amazing Jen (who manages to have small children AND still quilt) came through for us with a big selection to choose from. However…
5) Things tend to work out anyway. Moira didn’t want to wear the witches hat while we were trick-or-treating and so I held it for her. She went from house to house with her basket and a red sweater under her witches cape and four separate times people asked if she was Little Red Riding Hood!
Other random things I have learned last month (I keep adding to this post, I can’t help it – I just keep thinking of things I learned.):
- The baby will survive if I leave the house for a couple hours without her.
- Some kids just need to yell and scream their frustrations out. Moira is one of those kids some days and putting her in her room is beneficial for both of us.
- Never underestimate the power of a decent hair cut on your self confidence.
- Having a man around who likes to cook is pretty much the best thing ever.
- I really missed knitting.
Amber over at Strocel.com has started this series of monthly reviews and I think it is a great idea and decided to play along. If you want to check out what other people are learning – usually the hard way (is there any other way?) – check out her site.
What did you learn last month?