Jan 30

Back to glasses and other musings.

} Almost 11-months exactly after I got eye surgery I am back to glasses. The second round will have to wait a couple years. I could complain but… then I would be a jackass. I’m having a baby, my eye sight is still WAY better than it was before, I live a comfortable North American life and can afford glasses.

} Actually, I already had the glasses – I knew better than to get rid of them. I just needed new lenses.

} Having glasses again means I can drive the car again. I stopped driving in early December and was starting to feel a little stranded and dependent on the kindness of others. } It also means that I can watch movies without squinting.

} Moira & I leave Monday to visit my sister & her family in Ontario for week.

} Other than the thought of having a 2-year old bouncing on my pregnant bladder for a 4-hour plane ride, I’m looking forward to the trip.

} We are officially house hunting and I’m pretty sure it is going to make me crazy. Our budget is small (for this stupidly expensive city) and so far everything I have liked as been taken off the market days or – hours (not even kidding) – after it goes up. Who are these people and what are they doing? Hanging out in their realtors cars waiting for the MLS to be updated?

} This makes me want to continue renting. However, a lot of the houses I have seen for rent online say “children not allowed.” Now, I know that children can be messy – but when I compare Moira and her washable crayons to, say, a house full of male university student, I have to wonder what the hell is these peoples problem.

} Work has been rather non-existent for me lately and so Friday was the last day for our nanny. I must say, it was really really nice to have three afternoons a week to myself – even if it meant I was stuck in the bedroom on my computer. I am a little afraid that I will never get to run a child-free errand again. I also hate to admit that I’m not sure what to do with Moira all day, every day.

} On the other hand I don’t have to pay someone to hang around while Moira naps for two hours (the nanny was here for four). It was a really expensive nap.

} Last week Moira would wake up for about 2-hours in the middle of the night – every night. Either she would talk happily (although loudly) to herself or cry inconsolably. It was killing me and I was so tired I couldn’t think straight. This week she started sleeping right through the night. I think I have had to go in twice in the last 7-days to quickly reset her (aka: find her soothie). Hopefully I’m not jinxing myself by writing this.

} I’m sure going to my sisters will totally screw up Moira’s schedule.

} I know you are supposed to get warmer when you are pregnant but for some reason it just makes me colder. Most days I don’t feel like I have fully warmed up until I have my evening bath. Yesterday I sat around with a sweatshirt over my sweater. Our apartment isn’t that cold.

} I think my hair needs the chop. It has been really frizzy lately and just kinda yuck.

} I’ve already started digging into the maternity clothes. I’ll be 10-weeks tomorrow. Somehow this seems a little unfair but I know it is normal to start showing earlier with your second child. Please no: “maybe there are two in there” jokes because I just can’t handle the thought.

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Remember at the beginning of January when I said I was going to do a segment called Toy Stories? Well, I didn’t forget about it – I just got really tired from being pregnant and couldn’t do much of anything. However, this week is officially Toy Stories week and I have a couple guest bloggers queued up and a couple stories of my own. There is still time to send in a story of your own: meli.mello AT gmail DOT com.

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  1. claire says:

    lots going on!

    I really recommend Chris Richter as a realtor.. he’s awesome. Those people making offers have realtors; we learned that by time it gets to mls it has often been seen by a dozen realtors already, and they get their clients there right away. We saw and put an offer on our place the day before they were planning to put it on the market.

    also, a friend of mine has started a wed eve sewing gathering at a jr. high home ec room near Confed. Park.. lemme know if you are interested in joining..

  2. tricia says:

    is it not against the law in canada to state “no children” on a rental? i swear there are laws against discrimination like that here in the states, in general, but i could be wrong. and to agree with your statement about college students being worse than kids…i’ve seen some apartments occupied by alleged “full grown adults” that were so hideously dirty, it would have taken a child years if not decades to match.

    also, random, but in greenwich, CT there’s a shop called “meli-melo”. i saw it this weekend (multiple times) and every time, i thought of you.

  3. Kyla Roma says:

    Wow that’s a lot! We’re starting to house hunt too and it’s overwhelming. Just thinking about having to sell our house and look for another is overwhelming! Good luck, I’m rooting for you =)

  4. Moonwaves says:

    Congratulations. Just catching up on reading blogs now after having taken a break for a couple of months. Amazing how so much can change in some people’s lifes in a short time but it’s a good reminder to me that life is constantly moving on. Hope everything goes well.

  5. Thanks for the comment on my blog. I hope you have a nice time in Ontario – I lived there for several years!

  6. Heather says:

    Sorry to hear you’re back to glasses. Ah, well.

  7. Andreae says:

    I like your glasses, for whatever that’s worth – although obviously if you’re having surgery, it’s not just a matter of cuteness.

    The househunt here was like yours a couple years ago when my mom moved back. She would have a dozen newly-listed houses to look at, and they would be gone, likewise, within hours. She ended up going with a realtor friend to a house that hadn’t gone up on the MLS yet, and that didn’t have a sign up, and which quite frankly looks pretty dumpy from the outside but which is gorgeous once you make it past the two-tone aluminum siding, and the deal closed midnight that night. Insane. The market here has eased up a little, but not much. Damned oil money.

    I also was in maternity clothes at 10 or 12 weeks with Charlie, and this time around I was freezing and shivering for the first three months. Now I can’t even wear a scarf, I’m that exothermic. Pregnancy is a freak show.

    Have a great trip!

  8. phx says:

    Congrats on the pregnancy! I missed that somehow…

    I hope the plane ride goes well for you – I can’t imagine going on a plane with a 2 year old. Fingers crossed she doesn’t poop on the plane because those bathrooms… pfft. :)

    Good luck on the house hunting, and yes, you are very cute in those glasses.

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